Monday, 3 August 2015

Dead flesh

 This world runs on dead flesh. I draw this analogy from the Qur'an Paak which says that back biting is like eating the flesh of your dead brother.

Well, however, distasteful it might seem, the fact remains that a lot of what we see around us has resulted from back biting. It's the end of yet another eventful yet unfruitful day and I'm too exhausted to type everything on my mind.

I'll go back to my mummy, who is always on my mind these days (wait, THESE days? She's always been on my mind- right at the top! Though now that I have typed it, I doubt myself. Khair). So, well... mummy has had very few friends. I remember very few people who visited mummy (dost ke taur pe). One was Gupta uncle's wife. Gupta uncle is my father's best friend. They all sat together discussing everything- people, events and ideas.

But, there were two other ladies who visited us. I won't go into their details but all they spoke about was about people. Especially one of them. She is known as the BBC of our town. She went around the whole place collecting gossip and coming and telling it all to mummy. My mummy had nothing to tell these ladies except the same old property dispute, recipe, cat-stats and other unimportant things. On second thoughts, the property dispute, while mundane for us, may have been good fodder for aunty.

Whenever these aunties came home, they'd see mummy either working or reading some Islamic book. This has been how it has been since forever.

One of the aunties died, the second aunty gradually decreased her visits to our home. Just like everyone else.
I remember mummy telling me one day ki Kiran...pata hai mere zyada dost kabhi kyu nahi ban sake. Kyuki humko idhar ka baat udhar karne ka aadat nahi.

And I now realize ki bilkul sahi hai. The only reason my mummy has led such a lonely life is coz she has not gossiped. The only two close friends she had in Blair were people who gossiped. Even though they didn't get any masala news from mummy, I think they enjoyed her company coz mummy could give them that which others probably could not. Her ears, with no competition from her tongue.

So, yes. Gossip is the only thing, so it appears to me today, which can earn you friends.

Today someone who is going on a long vacation told me that one of his friends told him that in his absence, whom would the friend gossip with.

I have myself indulged in gossip with strangers nowadays. And trust me the heaviness has lifted. Not that things have improved but am a Sagittarian - an eternal optimist. You know what I mean.

I've had very few friends with whom I discussed the world. Unme se bhi ab sirf ek hi hai mere paas. Mela guddumumma.



2 comments:

steveroni said...

COPY from Facebook comments:
Almas, allow me to take some of your sadness, so you can be a bit less sad. OK? OH...how you must miss your Momma and Poppa and "Uncles" and "Aunties, and PORT BLAIR.

And I have a solution for you...GO HOME, Babe! Start over, filling out applications. Plead illness (you ARE homesick, right?)--grin!

I pray for God to show you His wishes for you...I'm sure there is a choice somewhere. God is never SO limiting. God usually says, "OK. You can do EVERYTHING, ANYTHING/........except This *****

steveroni said...

Almas, allow me to take some of your sadness, so you can be a bit less sad. OK? OH...how you must miss your Momma and Poppa and "Uncles" and "Aunties, and PORT BLAIR.

And I have a solution for you...GO HOME, Babe! Start over, filling out applications. Plead illness (you ARE homesick, right?)--grin!

I pray for God to show you His wishes for you...I'm sure there is a choice somewhere. God is never SO limiting. God usually says, "OK. You can do EVERYTHING, ANYTHING/........except This *****..
--Steve

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